Days ago when I was doing my listening practice, I found my idea was quite different from the author’s. He insisted that family should be the first while I hold the opposite idea. Let me explain my opinion step by step.

前几天当我在做听力练习的时候，我发现我的想法跟作者的是非常不同的。他坚持认为，家庭应该是第一个，我持相反的观点。让我一步一步的解释我的观点。

Drawing a conclusion to which one should be the first, career or family, we should depend on the following two aspects: Which one will do more to your life-long dreams and value; And which one promotes the development of society. It’s normal that there always be a conflict between career and family. However we should have an objective comment. That is which one gives more contribution. I wonder how can a family be permanent without the guarantee of career.

得出事业和家庭哪个更重要的结论，我们应该取决于以下两个方面：哪个对你一生的梦想和价值影响更大；哪个更能促进社会的发展。在工作和家庭之间有冲突是很正常的。但是我们应该有一个客观的评论。那是哪一个付出的贡献更多。我想知道如果没有事业保障，一个家庭如何能永久的存在。

Talking about achieving our value, we ought to combine it with our needs. What we need includes three sides: The need of existance, the need of enjoying and the need of development. At this time, we must have a clear mind that career or family which one has more ability to satisfy these, which one is related to these from the beginning to the end. There is no doubt that the answer is career. Referring to the value of society, we automatically think of work and creation. I do agree that family have something to do with these sometimes, but the productivity it brings to us is far less than what the career gives. What is the resource of the develpoping society? Of course, productivity. And through which the improvement of productivity can be shown. The answer is career as well.

浅谈实现我们的价值，我们应该把它与我们的需要结合起来。我们的需要包括三个方面：生存的需要，享受和发展的需要。在这个时候，我们必须有一个清醒的头脑去判断工作或者家庭哪个更能由始至终的满足这些。毫无疑问，答案是工作。说到社会价值，我们很自然的会想到工作和创新。我同意家庭对于这些是有帮助的，但它给我们带来的生产能力远远比不上工作给我们带来的。

发展中社会的资源是什么？当然，生产力。通过提高生产率可以证明。答案也是工作。

When asked what is the final destination for our career, you may said because you want to support a big family. I think maybe this answer belongs to one of our destination, but not the final one. We pay more attention to our career mainly because we desire to do something to meet the need of our society.

当被问及我们最终的事业目的是什么，你可以说是因为你要养活一个大家庭。我想也许这个回答是属于我们的一个目标，但不是最后一个。我们更关注我们的职业生涯主要是因为我们希望做一些事情来满足社会的需要。

If a country wants to be more powerful, it needs creative thought and continuous work, which obviously comes from career. As our country becoming stronger, we become stronger, too. In the contrary, if we never put career first, how can a family exist without the support of the society.

如果一个国家要更强大，它需要创造性思维和不断的工作，这显然是来自职业生涯。随着我们的社会变得越来越强大，我们自己也变得强大。相反的，如果我们不把事业放在第一，没有社会的支持一个家庭如何能存活。

A person who really has a deep understanding of his value, he/she should fight for his career first!

一个对自己的价值有深刻理解的人会首先为事业而斗争。

Actually, the spirit of pursuing higher career is also the spirit we indicate in present day. No matter which period of age we are at, we should keep our passion for reaching the higher level. Only in this way can we really get self value.

事实上，追求更高的事业精神也是我们今天的精神。无论我们哪个年龄阶段，我们应该保持追求更高层次的热情。只有这样我们才能得到真正的实现自我价值。

Compared the truth and value, yourself and the society, with a overall mind. You will come to a conclusion that career is rather significant!

用整体思维比较真理和价值，自己和社会。你会得出一个结论：工作是相当重要的！
Above is my statement for my opinion. Different people have different viewpoint. Some people, especially ladies, always think it’s their duty to do the housework and they are fated to be the housewives. Never will I agree. Doing more housework is OK for ladies but ladis should have independence. As a lady in 21th. Century, we ought to spare no effort to gain our position in the society. Therefore, I won’t get married until I have an achievement in my career!!

以上是我对我的观点的陈述。不同的人有不同的观点。有些人，尤其是女人，如果总认为做家务是她们的责任，他们注定要成为家庭主妇。我决不同意。做较多的家务对女士们来说是可以的，但是她们必须要独立。作为21世纪的女性，我们应该不遗余力地增加我们在社会中的地位。因此，直到我在我的职业生涯中有所成就我才会结婚！！