2、我们之间的关系很稳定而且也很可靠，但是我有点厌倦了。——一旦要认真起来对待一段感情，这是头号杀手。我们都希望生活中充满兴奋刺激。而生活最让人兴奋的事情之一就是去探索未知的事物。好奇心是推动我们发展的动力，但是一个人要学会适当的把握自己的好奇心。在一段认真地感情中首要的第一件事情恐怕就是探索对方整个的个性。但是一旦你了解了对方的一切，你再到哪里去寻找兴奋的来源呢？答案很简单，探索新的事物并且一起去创造新的体验。比新的体验更让人满足的就是与别人一同分享共同的体验。

3. She has wonderful qualities, but I get stuck on her flaws. - It’s always easier to destroy than to create. Likewise, it’s easier to be negative than it is to be positive. Many relationships fail because both parties concentrate their attention on their partner’s flaws instead of the qualities they love about them. You learn the most about somebody by figuring out their strong points, rather than disputing their weak points. Over time both partners can work on their weak points collectively, so long as each person keeps a positive attitude and an honest line of communication. Keep in mind that it is impossible work on the weak points of a relationship if you are incapable of seeing your partner’s strong qualities.

3、她有很多的优点，但我就是忍受不了她的缺点。——破坏总是比创造来的更容易。同样，否定也比肯定更容易。很多情侣最终分手就是因为双方都只注意到对方身上的缺点而忽视了他们所喜欢的优点。通过指出别人的优点能更好的了解他，而不是争论他的弱点。只要双方都能保持积极的态度并且真诚的沟通，久而久之就能一起来解决各自的弱点了。要记住如果在恋爱中你不能看到对方的优点，那也不可能解决对方的缺点。